April 29th, 2004
the irritating-father-syndrome
» motherhood
I am sure many stay-at-home mothers have experienced the irritating-father-syndrome, especially with those busy busy daddies. Early in the morning, after giving the baby her morning feed, I am relieved that the baby is still sleepy and could put her back to another 3 hours of sleep, i could use the precious time to do some cleaning and tidying and perhaps some reading. But daddy is going off to work, and won’t be able to see his precious darling until evening time. So he happily walked over to the cot, plant a huge kiss on her and tried to tickle her here and there, hoping that she will return him a goodbye smile. Smile? No. She will most probably send him off with loud wailing, and there goes my precious time.
Evening time. After a good bath, and probably after successfully killing the enemies in counter strike, the happy father decides that it is family time and wants to do some bonding with the kid. But to his disappointment, she is already asleep. Never mind, he thought, just have to wake her up. But i just spend an hour putting her to her sleep!!! And therefore, all my hard work is wasted. Have to pacify the fussy baby again, while the father happily boot up his computer and continues with whatever he wants to do!
This irritating-father-syndrome found its way to us some time ago, until James spread it to me. The virus instantaneously mutated to become the irritated-mother-bug. Luckily, the irritated-mother-bug is very effective in curbing the irritating-father-virus and thus, peace has returned to the family.




May 6th, 2004 at 5:21 am
Don’t worry, the irritating-father-syndrome will continue to mutate and pop up again and again. From feeding them cookies before dinner, to letting them play in the dirt right after bath time; there seems to be no limit to our power. As with all diseases, the proper immune response will have to be marshaled until we admit final defeat and learn to respond to our kids:
“Go ask your mother.”
May 7th, 2004 at 1:42 pm
The problem with the irritating fathers is that after creating the mess, they will happily disappear and let the mothers clean up the mess without any remorse, be it pacifying the crying, bathing the kid again, making them take their proper meal…. Just like what you had mentioned, have to activate my self immune system against the agonies.